365 Things.

The hardest part of this project is sorting through the daily endowment of blessings to find the one that inspired me most.  Although I don't write daily, the gift I do highlight is a compilation of 365 different blessings not necessarily in any order.  All the blessings are good gifts and remind me of my greatest blessing, His grace and compassion, His love.

Monday, May 10, 2010

53. Mothers

I'm behind on being grateful and on updating this gratitude blog. And so, I've found a gratitude deficit is the sequel to a deficit of compassion and patience and especially acceptance.

A lesson taught by my mother:
Problem: Selfishness
Solution: Be in Service

Yesterday was Mother's Day. I've not always been thankful for Mother's Day.

[insert picture of my mother once retrieved by my sister]

Right after my mom died, I resisted the thought of a day to celebrate her leaving me. I was sad going to church and listening to the children sing to their mothers. I don't remember, but I probably healed when my daughter was born and all of a sudden Mother's Day became all about me and no longer about my mom.

Now, Mother's Day is about my mom again or at least about the absence of her. I figure if I can't celebrate with my own mother, I ought to honor all the moms in my life who deserve recognition for being examples of courage and faithfulness and compassion and beauty.

And service.